One of my friends did talk about getting your ideal match but i think it needs a deeper interpretation. Lets start it with a fairy tale. When i was in standard 9 and 10 th my mom always talked about life being pathetic if one is not in IIT. We often had light fun times where aunts revealed that only men they wanted to marry were iitians because they were so inteligent. Wait a moments let me a candid confession that really looks a fairy tale to me now :P.
All of us must have seen people's personal profile on orkut describing their ideal match. I am sure we read it most and then sending some add request messages like "not many match but i guess i do qualify" ;). I hope i don't need to specify that i am talking of boys :P.
I had a strange opinion that girls have a difficult time getting a match when its come to marriage. Recently i was shattered ... lol ... when i didn't get any girl's profile that can even come close to my accepting after adopting a standard procedure of advertisement in most read news paper in country "Times of India". Some girls told me that no girls send their profiles through these medium of advertisements. Strange indeed just 10 years back one of my cousins with same qualification (B.Tech from IIT) got married via same medium and he encouraged me to go down the same path as at that time he got 1000 of profiles and more importantly found my extremely beautiful bhavi via the add.
Its beyond doubt that times have changed. Lets talk about some mediums people take to find their soul mates. Todays technology products matrimonial sites, today they are huge business but strike rate is pathetic. Once you all become first time memeber to these sites you would be excited like hell with lot of hope in heart believe me it doesn't take much time to bite the dust :P.
Since i have used these sites for sometime now let me give some insight into their reality. Most horrible site "Simply marry better call it never marry". Even shaadi.com is a huge sucker. Shaadi.com interestingly sends match alerts once you are paid member believe me they make it sure that 50% of those profiles would be of same sex ... lol ... pathetic indeed. Bharat matrimonial is definately better than these as it has some better profiles and for god shake doesn't send same sex profiles :P. If you are really looking for getting married stricly restrict your time and search to Jeevensaathi.com. At least i find them with most simple features to use and most importantly the best profiles. The site doesn't atleast look to be exsiting on the ground of fooling people. Though it doesn't make life simpler as problem is more complex indeed.
You find some gorgeous looking gilrs and without a rethink show intersts in them after all what it takes, just a button click. Be rest assured most of them decline your interest .. lol..
Assuming you are not average looking or don't earn bits and pieces there are more hurdles for you to cross. Most of them are punjabi and if you are not one you are out of consideration, bad luck indeed. Its not only is even most brahmins, rajputs, aggrawals and others want to marry in their caste only. Only interest i receive from others is from kayastha community though it may bother me least what community they belong to. Caste, belief and faith cripples you again and again. Except for punjabi's who anyways have great time .. lol ..
People often say marraiges are made in heaven believe me i also feel the same now :P.
All of us must have seen people's personal profile on orkut describing their ideal match. I am sure we read it most and then sending some add request messages like "not many match but i guess i do qualify" ;). I hope i don't need to specify that i am talking of boys :P.
I had a strange opinion that girls have a difficult time getting a match when its come to marriage. Recently i was shattered ... lol ... when i didn't get any girl's profile that can even come close to my accepting after adopting a standard procedure of advertisement in most read news paper in country "Times of India". Some girls told me that no girls send their profiles through these medium of advertisements. Strange indeed just 10 years back one of my cousins with same qualification (B.Tech from IIT) got married via same medium and he encouraged me to go down the same path as at that time he got 1000 of profiles and more importantly found my extremely beautiful bhavi via the add.
Its beyond doubt that times have changed. Lets talk about some mediums people take to find their soul mates. Todays technology products matrimonial sites, today they are huge business but strike rate is pathetic. Once you all become first time memeber to these sites you would be excited like hell with lot of hope in heart believe me it doesn't take much time to bite the dust :P.
Since i have used these sites for sometime now let me give some insight into their reality. Most horrible site "Simply marry better call it never marry". Even shaadi.com is a huge sucker. Shaadi.com interestingly sends match alerts once you are paid member believe me they make it sure that 50% of those profiles would be of same sex ... lol ... pathetic indeed. Bharat matrimonial is definately better than these as it has some better profiles and for god shake doesn't send same sex profiles :P. If you are really looking for getting married stricly restrict your time and search to Jeevensaathi.com. At least i find them with most simple features to use and most importantly the best profiles. The site doesn't atleast look to be exsiting on the ground of fooling people. Though it doesn't make life simpler as problem is more complex indeed.
You find some gorgeous looking gilrs and without a rethink show intersts in them after all what it takes, just a button click. Be rest assured most of them decline your interest .. lol..
Assuming you are not average looking or don't earn bits and pieces there are more hurdles for you to cross. Most of them are punjabi and if you are not one you are out of consideration, bad luck indeed. Its not only is even most brahmins, rajputs, aggrawals and others want to marry in their caste only. Only interest i receive from others is from kayastha community though it may bother me least what community they belong to. Caste, belief and faith cripples you again and again. Except for punjabi's who anyways have great time .. lol ..
People often say marraiges are made in heaven believe me i also feel the same now :P.
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hope...we will use ur experience :P
i think...everyone has tough time to find right match becoz everyone wants to make sure that he/she gets best deal. :P
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